Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
After reading many of the posts on here, I see that other are going through similar situations as I currently am.
As a child my brother, sister and I where extremely verbally abused by my father.
My brother is now in counseling. My sister has a lot of pent up anger. Me, we I guess i went and found me another abuser to live with. I am currently living with my fiancee of 8 years. She can be extremely abusive as well. She is constantly bereating me. Telling me how stupid or fat or numerous other things she thinks I am. Over the past 6 months I have lost 35 lbs and most co workers think I am at a good weight. Not her. She is always there to put a knife into my soul. Not matter what I do It is never good enough. Just last night she said " I was a fat, stupid fuck and she wished I would Die, die die!. Then a few hours later she would e-mail me from work and ask me to attend a dinner with her. She always turns everything around on me. Everything is my fault. She jumps at the chance to cut me to my soul. She flies into rages that are sparked by unknown reasons and she will vent it on me. My family has been talling me that since I have been with her I am becoming a different person. I know I should leave I just I am just scared to. I still love her, but am soo confused. It is hard for me as I can not go to my friends about this. They would just think me not "manly" as men can fend for themselves. I just don't know what to do and need to just get things off of my chest!
As a child my brother, sister and I where extremely verbally abused by my father.
My brother is now in counseling. My sister has a lot of pent up anger. Me, we I guess i went and found me another abuser to live with. I am currently living with my fiancee of 8 years. She can be extremely abusive as well. She is constantly bereating me. Telling me how stupid or fat or numerous other things she thinks I am. Over the past 6 months I have lost 35 lbs and most co workers think I am at a good weight. Not her. She is always there to put a knife into my soul. Not matter what I do It is never good enough. Just last night she said " I was a fat, stupid fuck and she wished I would Die, die die!. Then a few hours later she would e-mail me from work and ask me to attend a dinner with her. She always turns everything around on me. Everything is my fault. She jumps at the chance to cut me to my soul. She flies into rages that are sparked by unknown reasons and she will vent it on me. My family has been talling me that since I have been with her I am becoming a different person. I know I should leave I just I am just scared to. I still love her, but am soo confused. It is hard for me as I can not go to my friends about this. They would just think me not "manly" as men can fend for themselves. I just don't know what to do and need to just get things off of my chest!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Sometimes the person you want the most in the world...
is the person ur better off without.
Sometimes the people we thought we couldnt live without, were actually the ones
who stopped us from living.
Its so true... my ex made my life a living nightmare.. i thought i was the crazy one, and my friends and family said the same thing about me becoming a different person. But let me tell you, one day i just snapped. I couldn't take it anymore. I just snapped. Our fight became physcial, but he is gone... still harassing me for money, but he is gone. I thought that I would be so lost without him, but I got to tell you, I'm so happy these days. I love going home now, I'm getting more sleep, and no more headaches!! life does get better without that person in your life. just have faith in yourself. I completely undrestand how hard it is to leave, it really is hard, they brainwash you, but you are so much stronger than they are b/c really, if they were so strong they wouldn't have to put you down all the time, now would they?
i believe in you!