Pet Bereavement Support Group
The loss of a pet or animal to which one has become emotionally bonded can be an intense loss, comparable with the death of a loved one. Whilst there is strong evidence that animals can feel such loss for other animals, this community focuses on human feelings, when an animal is lost, dies or otherwise is departed.
i recently had to leave home and go to a shelter. during september i got a kitten i named her Twilight. i love her so much. shes like my daughter. she would only sleep with me, and would cry when i was at school. when i left mom knew that i couldnt take her with till i got an aparetment. i had to leave that house, it was a mess and a abusive place to live. 2 days after i left mom emailed me and told me that she got rid of Twilight. i cried so hard. i asked her why and she said that she couldnt deal with all the animals in the house. my answer to her was to clean the house better, when i was home i did the cleaning, i lived in a trailer, i cleaned but parents smoked all the time and kept the windows closed. but in my mind she got rid of Twilight because it remined her of me. shes mad at me for leaving and preesing charges againts her husband. but im just so hurt, i miss her so much i wanna cry. i just need some suport
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
1. twilight is not dead. She is well care for. She is living at Uncle Jimmy house. He has taken her to the vet for her shots. Whick (K) won't do for her. And the kitten would be given back any time (K) wants.
2. believer tried to give the kitten to a girl at school that really couldn't keep her. So I took her Back and I Found her a home.
and As for the House. beleiver, Never cleaned the house. She would not even wash her own clothing or take a shower unless. I spoke up. And She destroyedthe room we built for her. Over 5,000 in damages.
And beleiver just didn't leave the house. she was told to get out. She dosen't want support she wants pitty. So do what you must.
Believer, I know you must miss Twilight terribly - it is hard to have to let a beloved pet go - especially when you use the pet for your comfort. I understand that your Uncle will let you have her back as soon as you get on your feet. I am praying for you that it will not take long.
Toba, as a parent my heart is with you, too. Sometimes a parent does their best, but our babies must learn on their own the hard way. It just stinks. Everybody hurts and at times, it seems as if there is no end to the hurt.
May God bless you both and give you the peace and comfort you both are seeking and deserve.