
Pet Bereavement Support Group
The loss of a pet or animal to which one has become emotionally bonded can be an intense loss, comparable with the death of a loved one. Whilst there is strong evidence that animals can feel such loss for other animals, this community focuses on human feelings, when an animal is lost, dies or otherwise is departed.

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My baby Pixie was a sweet little female cat, she was gray tabby with white patches and I loved her like she was of my flesh. She had so much character and imagination she was a silly girl. I respected that she loved to go outside and explore. One day she went out and never came back. I called for her and went to the neighbors with a picture and I never found anything. I would pull over when I saw felines killed in the road to be sure it wasn't her. I hated the idea of her death but I can't stand not knowing what happened.
I could at least try to move on if I knew she was gone. I cry when I think of her and I think people find it ridiculous to grieve so much for a cat.
I will never have children so they were my babies. It's the capacity I have to love that makes the hurt so deep.
I don't really know what I am trying to accomplish with this post, I guess I just needed to share my pain and see if anyone has been able to put to rest their loss.
I could at least try to move on if I knew she was gone. I cry when I think of her and I think people find it ridiculous to grieve so much for a cat.
I will never have children so they were my babies. It's the capacity I have to love that makes the hurt so deep.
I don't really know what I am trying to accomplish with this post, I guess I just needed to share my pain and see if anyone has been able to put to rest their loss.
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Not goodbye.....just until
Marmy always comes back for you
Leibchen March 12,1994 - November 15,2006
Thank you for your responses I really appreciate your support.
It is a great thought to think of a cat coming back even after so long!
I just pray that she's living a great life going between different peoples houses getting fed great stuff 'cause she's so cute and sweet and had such a high voice and a way with people.
I have to hold on to that. With white knuckles sometimes.