As many of you know I have a son who is on the border of being mentally retarded. He also has some learning disabilities. He is failing at life, he goes from trival job to unemployment and back again. When I suggest things he screams and tells me I think he is retarded. I have learned many communication skills over the years to prevent my saying anything that would cause him to interrupt my words differently. This is one of his challenges in life. Now that I have this cancer diagnosis our relationship is even more estranged because I need him to understand some legal and medical tersm. He lives many miles away from me but because He needs to know certain things if I were to die. He absolutely refuses any type of help from doctors or anyone else. I just do not know how to handle this situation. He will not agree to any type of mediation. My only recourse is to take him out of my will and life by legal matters. I know this is heavy but if anyone has any type of advice I would greatly appreciate it. My surgery is September 8th.
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