I have a very big issue with craving love and nurturing because I didnt get it from my mother as a child. Sometimes I think I need a surrogate mother that will be there for me, which sounds retarded. My counselor says that a person has to learn to be their own friend and comfort youself but I find it hard to do that. Does anyone else have this issue or any suggestions on how to do this? It also seems like when Im alone I tend to have negative thoughts and want to self injure. It makes me crazy. Im off work now for a month but something tells me that I dont need to go back that I need to take time to work on me but then there's my husband who sts that if I do that then we will have to move in with his mother and I dont want to that either. So Im just really stressed out right now.
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