I have a daughter that is 28yrs. old... she has ADD, BPD, Depression and is delayed mentally from birth. A year ago she got connected with a guy that she thought she knew from school... then left the group home... live with this guy for all some a year,...that is a alcoholic, drugs user, controlling, threating person and more. In this time I left her alone hoping and praying that something would give. Well it did... I got a call from him saying that she had walk out on him... that was Nov 6th... then she phoned me from her counsellors office asking for help. Just a few days before she had phoned me, because that I have very strong bond with her I knew then she was pregnant... that right pregnant.. I even told two friends of mind. After she was home, I start to see changes in her behaviour... we got a home test which I did three times to make sure and yes I'm going to be grandmom again. That in itself is ok, but here is the big, big, big, problem. I was told by her psychiatrist that if she gets pregnant again she may not come out of the postpartum depression after the baby is born. Now that she is her health and the baby's health is my most top concern before this guy she thinks that will do everything for her. Emotionally, and mentally my daughter is very on stable. After she left him we had to get and emergency protection order... and yet he kept on phoning... which end up him being arrested several times. Now to top it off more she went and told him that he the father and has not come home for two nights. I just talk with her to day and she want to get back together with him. My daughter is living in a fantasy world and I don't know how to reach her... because now he is saying again all the right things she wants to hear.... My heart is sicken. I'm sorry for the long discussion here but I'm at my end's of the rope,... I need support.. yes I know she wants what any other woman wants but I'm afraid for her saftey and for the baby,.... because of all this stress that she putting herself through. I told her that after the baby is born and she is stable and she still wants to tell him,... then she can get help. The bottom line to all this, again she making very poor decisions and if she don't straighten out here soon... then I as her legal guardian, I will have to steps in make decision she would not want me to. Please Pray that God will change the situation for me so that I don't have too. I love me daughter very much... we now got her down for a place to live in.. she been able to see her other daughter... I help her find a small job which she now not wanting to do. I would go the distant for my daughter but I have to draw the line somewhere, and it will hurt everyone that's invole. Thanks for allowing to express my feelings.
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