Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
I am a 31 year old male. Both me and my girlfriend are codependent. I am codependent to her and she is to me but she needs more attention than I can give her. We have been living together for 9 months and now are trying to live apart (her idea)and she has friends she is staying with and I am living by myself. She I don't have a lot of friends but she does. I am codependent to a my partner but she just needs to be around other people as much as possible. When we are together things are good. We just want to lay around and not do much which isn't good. When we are out she is very out going and sometimes it causes problems. She is the life of the party and never wants to be the first to leave or when we have people over never wants them to leave. This causes huge problems. I am a very jealous person and this makes things hard also. I am also a person that thinks the worst is going to happen. She is a 10 and I feel like I am only a 4. Our love for each other is true and deep just need some advice to help make things better and ways to help me
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Chris..I live your dilema..My wife of 2 years is a promotional model etc..very attractive..has a huge following on myspace etc..As you can imagine every guy in cyberworld hits on her..I have emceed some events with her and other models etc..She also is the Life of the party girl..often leaving me to fend for myself while she goes and frolics in her self made celebrity status..I sound a bit bitter here I iknow.I forsaw problems with this and a few months ago my worst fear was realized when I found out she had an affair with a camera man she was aquainted with.it has been a huge mess..She regrets the whole thing..he pretty much told her things ..lied to her about making her a star etc..typical bs The guy is lucky he is still breathing..I kicked her out of my house we were seperated for a month or so..we are currently back together and as much as I love her..I cant stand to look at her sometimes..the things that go through my head are making me insane..Our relationship started 6 years ago she was a struggling waitress and I was the knight in shining armour..she thought I was the best thing that ever happened to her..I long for those days..I feel like a weak needy pathetic loser sometimes..I have alot of pride it is hard to be betrayed this badly..I can only give you this advice..You are not a 4 to her..if she is truly a 10 she would not be with you..I have to tell myself these things as well..I am a very attrtactive man..I dont think I am all that ..but I just want her and what we once had..not all the bs..the friends..external stuff that she seems to thrive on..It is extremely difficult..we have 2 kids and she has put us all on the backburner to try to become some kind of star or sometihing.It drives me crazy and I hate it with a passion..but she hates that I cant support her "dreams" her dreams caused her to go away from me and so what she did..how can I support that? Thats my dilema..Sounds like we have some similar isssues..Hang in there..I wish you luck with this..Anyuthing I can do..just holler...Paul
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
