ok this isn't directed at any members in here ok.but i have found through my travels on ds i have met folk saying they are here for me etc but when it comes down to it they are not.i had a really bad time of it after christmas day,i wrote regular in my journal,it was my way of saying to those who said they was there for me "help" but they didn't even read my journals ,ok got the occasional hugs but by what the hugs said i knew they hadn't bothered reading my journals.why do people let you down,if i say i'm there for someone i'm there for them,even if i can't help them i always try to message them,chat to them.even if i'm feeling down i never turn anyone away .i think finding time for those in need is important,and i know you will understand as fellow sufferers of personality disorders how we sometimes view things ,thinking folk don't care etc.and the state we can get ourselves into.i did have one friend on here who helped me with her wicked sense of humour and i'm thankful for that.
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