
Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.

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I have this thing where I totally flood people with kindness. I'm just trying to be nice and help people as much as possible. My husband and I have been helping one of our friends out with furniture from our storage unit (from back when we had plenty). I also used some extra money I had to buy him some clothes. My husband had told me he didn't have much.
This fellow told me he loved me today. He has been saying other stuff like "You are very attractive" etc. I also think my cousin ended our friendship because he was having feeling for me too. I didn't realize it at the time, but he was dropping some serious hints too. I have always prefered male friends, but my kindness factor seems to lead to more than I want. I just want friendships. I love-love my husband. Is this desire to flood people with kindness and gifts apart of my BPD?
This fellow told me he loved me today. He has been saying other stuff like "You are very attractive" etc. I also think my cousin ended our friendship because he was having feeling for me too. I didn't realize it at the time, but he was dropping some serious hints too. I have always prefered male friends, but my kindness factor seems to lead to more than I want. I just want friendships. I love-love my husband. Is this desire to flood people with kindness and gifts apart of my BPD?
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I don't ask anything from anyone but love. As I said probably too intense for most. I am offended by gossip, because it has hurt me in the past. I really think this make it difficult for me to fit in. My mother is a big gossip and has loads of "friends" because she is able to join in with people. People say they like that I am true, but I guess I am also boring. I never have any good news to share. I use to be a horrible person. Depending on my beauty, snobbish, materialistic, social climber, back then people wanted to be around me. Then I turned into a party girl with guys always around. My "friends" liked that their were always spares. Now I'm married with children. I am faithful to my husband. I am not straight enough to hang with the people some call "Bible thumpers", but I am too straight to be a party girl. I am an open minded preachers wife in the south. God will send someone my way soon. I just want to be prepared so I don't scare them away.
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