Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
I officially hate been BPD.
I get bullied at work and get the bullies asking me if i am going to stab them. That really hurt me, cos the only person i ever hurt is myself! I wouldn't hurt a fly.
I hate the fact that in the uk if you have BPD you don't get taken seriously or treated. I haven't even been offered DBT or CBT the mental health team don't want to know me.
I hate the fact that i can't make steady friendship and get paranoid.
It's all getting to me big style
I get bullied at work and get the bullies asking me if i am going to stab them. That really hurt me, cos the only person i ever hurt is myself! I wouldn't hurt a fly.
I hate the fact that in the uk if you have BPD you don't get taken seriously or treated. I haven't even been offered DBT or CBT the mental health team don't want to know me.
I hate the fact that i can't make steady friendship and get paranoid.
It's all getting to me big style
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Good luck and tell those bullies to shove it
I had a student once that was of average size, but he through the bible across the room and cursed God. No one in the entire school messed with him. All students assumed he was truly fearless if he did that. As I said those bullies know you wouldn't do anything to hurt them.
I wish I had an answer for defense against bullies, they bothered me too. I am definately not suggesting that you do what my student did, it was just an example of when people are really scared of someone.
I guess the best you can do is lean on us and show those idiots that BDP's have each other and aren't affected by their negative statements. (Even if it still hurts, you do have us to lean on.)
I want to join....
Someone once told me that bullies were insecure, scared individuals I should feel soory for......
I'm sorry it is not politically correct to punch them in the head....
It sounds like you're more of a "flight" person than a "fight" person from your post in regards to the bullies.
Well here's a secret.....bullies are weak people who try to pick on others that they perceive as being weaker than they are. They bully people to make themselves feel more powerful. Take back the power and tell them to stuff off and don't bow down to them, they tend to go away if they know they can't get to you.