I bend over backwards for my boyfriend but when one small thing doesnt go his way he goes off on me. He has bpd and Im trying, I am willing to tough this out because the real him underneath all this is everything i want. He spiraled out of control 4 months ago by convincing himself he's something that he is not. He moved back to his parents 800 miles from me and things havnt been going so well. He doesnt want to talk to me but expects me to email him everyday. He is short and snippy with me ad the other night we got in a fight and he ended up calling me a dumb b*****, which does not fly with me. He tells me how good i am and how i deserve so much but then he treats me poorly. I dont understand and i dont plan to fully understand. I just want to know some tips on how to deal with him when he acts like this. I feel like im the crazy nagging girlfriend but I know I am not, it bothers him when i ask him how his day is. I encourage him to hang out with his friends. I just dont know what to do.... please help me
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