Personality Disorders Support Group
Personality disorders form a class of mental disorders that are characterized by long-lasting rigid patterns of thought and behaviour. Personality disorders are seen by the American Psychiatric Association as an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it.
ok... so I have this prob of bring up the past. Even tho the guy im with hasnt done anything, in my mind he has...whatever the last guy did ill kinda put it on the new guy, and then ill find something the new guy has done and like 5 mths later bring it up and make a big deal about it. Iv been told im crazy and need to get over myself. How? im trying to learn to deal with it and not say anything when that feeling comes up but then hes like whats the matter.. even tho i dont know whats the matter its like my brain will give me a reason to pick a fight with him..iv even seen myself doing dishes and my boyfriend just watching tv and ill get right mad at him for nothing and ops there goes a cup flying in the air at him. i just cant let go of stuff and i dont know why... i have lost a lot of people because of me analizing stuff way to much also.. i dont know what to do with myself anymore......
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
A much bigger part of this is the disorder, and all though it doesn't feel like it right now, you can get control.
As for now, try to stop yourself when that feeling washes over you. Seriously, tell yourself "STOP" and maybe even write down what is making you so angry. Seeing things in writing changes our perspective.
Also, try to voice your needs before they trigger a anger response. If you hate doing dishes (lord knows I do) ask your bf if he wouldn't mind drying the dishes that you wash, or vice versa.
If he says no, then throw the cup at him! joke...please don't.
IDK, I hope this helped a bit.
Imahypercondriat...No we don't need a special school for that, it comes naturally. LOL But...don't worry, it goes away with age. grin