I feel very certain from everything I have read, things I have experienced with him, seventeen years togeter that my stbx has BPD. He was diagnosed with depression about four years ago. Is it normal for him to project how he is onto me? Accuse me of having BPD. He actually believes this. I have been to counseling twice a week for the past year 1/2 to get past our marital problems....I feel he has been a verbally and emotionally abusive person and suffers from BPD. I obviously need to change the way I react to him...but is there any advice anyone can give to me.....Some of the things he says are just plain off the wall to me. I am not sure how to deal with this man. We share a child.....so I do need to communicate with him at times. Thanks
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