Is there a reason why we continue to think of our former flames, even though we really should not be because they were bad situations? I feel like I am going crazy by thinking of them and analyzing what I should or should not have done, and wondering if I should contact them again. Even though, we have not been in contact in 2 years, they still come to mind. It's really weird, it makes me feel sad all over again thinking about how I was treated. After doing research, I realized that my actions fit with fear of abandonment and co-dependency. But, how does one get over that? Are we supposed to speak with the people who have hurt us? Or maybe I am just tripping...
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