I know it may take a few days for an answer, but here it goes. I have a man who apparently "understands" I have written him letters explaining what sexual things I need from him, but his reply is for me to act it out. But when I do, he brushes me off with cimments like " we'll see or maybe. It seems the only time I hve any intimate contact is when he is sleeping, I have to wake him up. He hardly ever approaches me for lovemaking, for any affection for that matter. I dont understand why it would be so hars for him! Its not like I ask him all the time. I already hve self esteem issues according to my B.P.D. I dont need anything added on to it. I dont have any doctors to speak of. I have been reasearching b.p.d. on the internet and hve found a few things abiut me that have opened my eyes so to speak, and I have no one to help me. So there is what is bothering me, it is an ongoing thing between him and I. I have tried many different approaches to him but still no change whatsoever. What do tou suggest? pleasr help!
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