As I start typing this tears run down my face. My husband and I have been separated a year and are going through a divorce. He right away had his girlfriend and her 2 kids boy 10 and girl 7 move into his home. I have a 7 yr old son and 9 yr old daughter. we have joint custoday and rotate days and weekends. He called me last wed night and said they had friends visiting with kids and his girlfriends son molested one of the boys that were visiting,The boy told his mom. When my ex asked if he did anything to my son he said yes. Since that night my son has been staying with me and his girlfriends son has moved to his grandmothers and is going to get some help. Tonight my son wanted to go to his dads and since the other boy isn't there I felt ok with it. My ex and I are scheduling help for my son but overall he seems ok. I had a moment with my son and talked about everything and he opened up to me alot. my heart aches for him but he seems stronger than i am. he is a fun loving, easy going most caring little boy in the world.Deep in my heart I know he will get through this, he is strong and has such a wonderful personality but I just feel so sad since it has happend. i also feel angry because he told me this happend several times since christmas. I'm angry at my ex and his girlfriend, he was not protected. I ask myself why. I've had the talk with both kids every few months we talk about it why didn't he tell me? I'm glad I found this site to vent and know my emotions are normal. I just hope I can get through this. What makes me anger is he is trying to work this situation out with his girlfriend. I feel he's making that a priority over my son's well being. He says he doesn't want to abandon his girlfriends son because he looks up to him as a dad and he doesn't have any other male role model. Well who cares!!! my son was violated, many times, he is the one that needs your full attention right now. Whether him and his girlfriend stay to gether through this I don't know I hope not. For my son's privacy we are keeping this private. I want to scream to the world her son hurt my boy but I don't want my son looked at different because of it. The hardest part is not having anyone to talk to . I really don't have any family or close enough friends to talk about this to so I'm glad I can express it here. So any advice or comfort is greatly appreciated.
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