After a yr in a half of my daughter not seeing her father/abuser the judge ordered supervised visits to see how my daughter and her abuser would interact and from there he would decide if visits should be allowed being that evey evaluation and report has been inconclusive. So when the visits started my daughter would go happily all she did was play games and do arts and crafts she loved it. She would come out of a session trying to convince me that her dad was good now and was not going to hurt her anymore. I got to say I was a little relieved that she enjoyed going because it made it a little easier for me to deal with I couldn't imagine taking her against her will, but a week after the visits my daughter started urinating on the bed again, having nightmares again, constantly asking me if me and her were always going to be together, randomly talking and role playing about the abuse and her anger and behavior became more aggressive it was dejavu all over again. I was so worried so I decided to write a letter to everyone involve in the case letting them know about my concerns and my daughter reactions to the visits. I brought this letter to the judge and he read it and was concerned as well he stated that if any more concerns came up that we should report back to court to make some changes. Well my daugter just got a new therapist and after the 3rd session my daughter revealed the abuse to the counselor verbally and she also drew a picture detailing what her father did thank god. The therapist believes my daughter was abused by her father and this is the second therapist to feel this way. But this is the first therapist who is willing to go to court to express her concerns she feels that my daugher should not have visits with her father because it is detrimental to my daughter, the counselor has sent out monthly reports to everyone involve in my case hoping to stop the supervised visits. I have my fingers crossed hoping that we go back to court and the judge stops the supervised visits even though Its been two weeks and I have not heard back from DCF or the GAL so I dont know. But I'm praying cause to continue to see my daughter reaction to the visits breaks my heart.
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