Well another year now 4 have passed without my mom (perp is her husband). She emails me a few times a year which can trigger me emotionally. My daughter is doing very well in school now 1st grade. She is social smiles alot is still my baby. Has great friends. My boys to are doing well. My oldest probably i have the most trouble with he was a very very sensitive child worries about everything and i think aside from my daughter was most affected by the break with my family. But even so i carry this way more than any of them seem to. It is a heavy burden an unaswered , unresolved case in that no charges were filed, or justice rendered for my daughter. I wonder if i will ever feel resolved myself. If i could not feel this burden i do. It is tiring for sure. It helps so much to come here because i know im not dealing with this alone.
I recently had something come up with my son now 10 and a friend talking about sex. It was alarming to me because he is so young and the kids including my daughter all play together. I had to have some tough talks with the mom and set some boundaries with my children. I find that i am way more ontop of these things than i might have been otherwise. The last thing i want is my daughter to be hurt again. It also reaffirmed our families no sleep over rule!!!
So no sooner than I had completely decided that there was nothing to worry about with the hand-holding situation things get more complicated. This afternoon, someone in the neighborhood wrote a note on our front walk to the effect of "You are pretty. I love you. XOXO From ?" Then they rang the doorbell and ran away. On one hand assuming it's a kid her age, it's funny and adorable. On the...
I watch Joyce Meyer all the time. This week she did a show called “How do I get rid of my pain.” She goes in more details about the sexual abuse she endured from her Dad. It was a very encouraging message. Just thought I would share if anyone wants to check it out at Joycemeyer.org