For months, my 3 year old daughter had frequent diaper rashes and irritation. She started to act terrified during baths and diaper changes begging me to please not hurt her pee pee. I thought maybe just the water was hurting her, but she started to say daddy hurt me when I bathed her. I still thought maybe he cleaned her too rough. (We have been living separately for a year although technically still married) 3 weeks ago, she came home from his house and while we were watching tv she took a battery out of the remote and put it in herself. I made an appointment with her doctor and he ended up reporting it to DCS. We had a medical evaluation done at an advocate center and they found a labial adhesion, but said that wasn't anything to be concerned about and on a scale of 1-10 of knowing for sure she was abused, they were a 5 and I should prepare myself for the case being dismissed. Since the battery incident, my little girl has made numerous disclosures to me. Saying daddy plays with it and rubbing herself, saying daddy put a pillow in it and puts a pillow on her lap and rubs herself under it. Much more but I'm trying to not make this too long. I'm her forensic interview, she didn't open up and didn't say enough for proof. She said her pee pee and butt butt hurt and one time mentioned daddy did something but mumbled and didn't disclose to the investigator. Police called my ex to set up a time to talk in regards to an investigation his name was in connection to. He agreed and then had a lawyer contact the officer. The officer told me short of confession, there was nothing more that could be done for justice and that it would be unsubstantiated. She did say there was a lot there that was concerning to her though. I've retained a lawyer and am filing for emergency custody and today I got the medical records from her last 2 doctor's visits and it said that she had vulvovaginitis at her exam when we had suspicions. To me, the vulvovaginitis, the labial adhesion, the numerous disclosures to me and my parents, behavior changes, and my ex jumping the gun and lawyering up all prove guilt to me. It seems like everyone believes my daughter, but nothing can or will be done to protect her and it pisses me off so bad. I don't know what more I can do. I'm praying he won't get any kind of custody but right now I just don't know. I'm terrified and have to hear these awful things coming out of her beautiful mouth every day. I hate this world and I'm losing it. Need help.
My husband's father molested my 7 year old daughter for around 3 years we found out at the beginning of April 2020 when she came to me about it, he was arrested at around midnight the day we found out and called the police. He admitted it. We both felt much more relaxed after we knew he was in jail.. The next morning his mother and brother bailed him out of jail, knowing that he had done it. He's...
I just discovered this song; it's about recovery from alcoholism but the chorus is so true to our situations: "It gets easier but it never gets easy. I could say it's all worth it but you'd never believe me." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CagbTwPxXw&feature=youtu.be