Parents Whose children have been sexually abused Community Group

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Hi,
Im a 25 year old who is a mother and a step mother, two step children and one of my own. My oldest step child was molested when he was 5 he is now 12.
And when i say step children its just i have to. I love them like they r my own. I have known them since they were 2 and 5. But anyways, the oldest was molested when he was 5 and 6 and when he turned around 10 he molested two people we tried different treatments to get him help but the state stepped in and took him to a treatment center. He will be there for atleast a year. ANd the trial is just now starting for the guy who abused him!!! Just wondering if anyone would share some stories with me. Anyone have advice on how to help my youngest two get through this! Any advice that we can do for our son who's in treatment.Thank You
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I feel for you and what you are going through. I encourge you to lean on the higher power. All children need love regardless of their actions. You can hear the love you have for your children by the way you write. Being labeled as a step child can make a child feel a little insecure. I'm glad to hear that you love them like they were your own.

Hopefully this treatment center is for children with sexual abuse problems both from committing the crime and for being abused themselves. From what I understand there is a lot of anger associated with being a victim of sexual abuse and the child needs the opportunity to let it out. Sometimes the outlet becomes forcing it on another victim. I encourage you to write to him often and send cards if you can. You could have your other children write to him and draw pictures for him as well. Show him you love him. Hopefully he is getting the help he needs. Best wishes to you.
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