I have step-children whom I hold very dear to my heart, as if they were my own children. I will call them A and B. Recently I have found out that A is telling lies about me and my biological child to A's non-custodial parent. I am crushed and devistated that this is happening. A tells me daily "I love you" before leaving for school, hugs me goodbye, asked how I slept, comes home asked how my day was, tells me thank you for dinner and how good it was, hugs me goodnight, tells me "I love you and see you in the morning" but then behind my back he is saying horrible things about me, that I am mean, all I do is scream and yell and punish them. I am absolutely devistated and do not know how to handle this. I have not told A that I know this is being said. I look at A and wonder how A can be so mean and intentionally hurting. I am afraid to say anything because no matter what it is he makes it sound like it was something bad. Has anyone every had to go through something like this?
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