Hubby and I split up last night after 15yr of marriage. I tried so hard to stay for our 13yr old until he went away to college. I have been in counseling for months trying to be able to hang in, but I just can't do it. Hubby is passive agressive and takes me out with is attacks 3-4 times a week. I do not recognize him nor our marriage any longer. Yesterday afternoon when I was taking a nap and our 13yr old son was watching tv in his room 20 ft away from hubby in the office with the door open WATCHING PORN on our 27' monitor!!!! It could have been our son rather than myself who found him! I could not believe he could not find anyother time to watch porn! I have found him doing this before and asked him to not do this while my son and I are in the house. I didn't even give him grief for doing it, just asked him to be discrete. I guess that was too much to ask! Coupled with being tired of taking his abuse, it was the straw that broke the camels back. So....how does one start a whole new life after 15yrs of marriage?!?! How do we not scar our son for our weakness?
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