I think...most of our problems w/ our children begin bc ... were not really listening. some of U may agree, some may not. B4 my son died in 2003, I hd a great... relationship w/ my daughter. Shortly after he died...I became numb and angry. Most of the time when my girl wanted to show/ tell me something or play , I would say... " LATER" sweety, the word became more & more one of the few things I'd say, a yr after...my mom died ( that did not help) , I was hospitalized w/ a nervous breakdown, I'm much better now. I can now look bk & I realize...this is were it all began. Children don't understand depression & I didn't get the apropiate help/ support I needed, as a single parent, all I had time 2 do was... WORK, which I know... many of U R familiar with..
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