My 12yr. old daughter is really worrying me, I knowthat girls like boys and they get crushes, but she goes beyond what is normal to me, she writes notes to the much older boys at school. tells the other girls they are hot for her and that she loves them, then of course those girls have to run and tell the boys who in turn either laugh or say something to upset her, she has gotten herself so upset over these things and she tries to get on the web sites that are not app. for her, we have parental control and our computer is in the living room, my daughter has severe mooddisorder and mild ODD. she has trouble with social issues and and how to respond to certian things in a appriote way. I have tried taling to her about what can happen if she continues with thie behavior, the boys will not respect her , the kids will call her names and she will be setting herself up for a bad rep. nothing works, we have had counselors at school talk to her. the staff try to moniter her when she is in the same area as the high school kids, I try to keep on top of it at home, I know by tryingto do all this we are pushing her towards it, but I do not want her to hang herself. if she was just talking like ,hey that boy is cute or things like that I would not be worried, but she get's obsesseds. there are also trust issues we deal with, she has social issues and is on meds for depression and she goes to therapy for her behaviors, wich can be aggresive, I am just at a lost ofwhat to do, she allready has enough struggles without adding to the pile, I know she feels like we are trying to control her, and we do have to moniter a lot ofthings with her, butshe also has choices and is invlovred in youth group and sports, she struggles with acceptance and fitting in and she is very sensitve to things kids say to her and they tend to be mean towards her at times, she has no friends that come over and she is never invited anywhere, I feel sorry for her and do not know how to help her.this boy thing really has me scared, because I am worried she is just looking for someone to like her and will do anything to get them too, I am always stressed over her and worrying myself over her, I love her and have tried to not make issues over some things but this is getting out of hand, any ideas on how to handle it.
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