I don't know if all moms feel this way but, i get to feeling this way a lot. I feel really guilty if I eat something and the kids aren't. If we eat at the same time for meals, which we do, why do I eat when they're not? I don't really need it I just do it. I know there is something else that I can be doing but I just don't. I feel the kids when ever they want something. Breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, supper, snack before bed. But there are days that I feel really guilty for not giving them lunch. Like when we'll be at the playground with the moms group and they'll fall asleep on the way home, so I put them to bed when we get home. I was doing sooooo good with feelings like this and feelings of inadiquice(sp) but for some reason they're coming back. How do I stop feeling guilty about doing anything without them doing it to?
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