I have a 19 yr old daughter who is married with 2 children. A beautiful 9 month old girl and 2 yr old boy. Here is the situation. She is only sometimes with her husband, who only sometimes works, but neither does she. She was living with her father but he told her she had to go. Now she is living with a friend and the friends husband. She seems to expect everyone else to take care of her and her children. She won't keep a job, is fixing to loose her car, is very cross with the kids, and seems to expect her husband to fix it all. She is driving me crazy! They can't buy groceries, or gas for the car, or diapers. I don't know what else to do for her, except to let her do without. I can't financially afford to support my own household and buy her groceries, gas and diapers. Especially since she doesn't work and she stays up and down the road. What do you do? Can't let the babies not be fed. If you give her money she spends it on gas and cigarettes. If I buy groceries for them, then everyone else is eating them too. Driving me CRAZY !!
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