Ok..she came home (pls see Taylor came home?!) and agreed to the rules and kept saying how happy she was to be home. She came home on Monday night a week ago..We noticed she was smoking our brand of cigarettes and seemed to be trying to hide them. So we counted our packs and realized that a pack was missing. We let her know that we knew, but we just let it go, telling her that we would be watching closer! We have season passes to a local waterpark so on Tuesday she took our other 3 kids and the baby, that we used to take care of all the time since he was 5 days old. But when Taylor moved out the first time, I found that I couldn't take care of the baby by myself. With her gone and Steve (hubby) working second shift, it was just too much for me. Then Wednesday she had offered to watch the baby again and kept leaving him in his jumperoo and his exersaucer to go smoke and talk on the phone. I kept having to get after her to come and get him. I have to use a stupid cane right now because of a problem with my hip. After about 2 hours she called the baby's mom to come and get him cuz she had some running she had to do and the mom didn't leave the car seat. The mom came and was not too happy, but she really had no choice. Taylor took off doing whatever. She told us what she was going to do, but actually did not do what she said...as usual! While she was getting ready Steve counted the packs of cigarettes and we had 5 packs. As soon as she left he counted again...there were 4!! He was steamed!! So when she came home and we knew she had stolen the cigarettes AND lied aobut where she had been, she broke the rules, and that meant she had no car keys! She had a friend take her to work and said her boyfriend would pick her up after, but she was not sure if he would bring her all the way home, so I told her that if she could not be home by 1:30 (a rule) then she had to stay somewhere else for the night but had to be back home early in the morning because we had alot to do and she had to work again that evening. We did not hear from her after midnight on Wednesday/Thursday. We kept trying to get ahold of her, but didn't find her. My best friend went to her work to see if she was there. She wasn't and the manager said to my friend..NO Call, NO show, NO job..she's terminated! Finally around midnight Thursday/Friday my friend found her at her boyfriends. Apparantly they had gone to the movies and bowling and just having fun. My friend brought Taylor and her boyfriend here so we could talke and all be on the same page. Come to find out the boyfriend didn't want her to live there and says he didn't want to be her "boyfriend", but wanted to be friends and use the power her had over her to make her change her ways?!?!? Obviously we were up late, so Taylor slept in..we tried but she would not get up. Finally she got up showered and was supposed to be cleaning the mess she had made downstairs. All she ended up doing was sleeping. So Saturday morning Dad told her she had to do the whole room or she was not going anywhere! She was pissed, but oh well. Dad took the other kids and went to the store. She lied to me and told me she had put all her stuff away and had really worked on the room and wanted the keys to go do some errands..I said no way, you have to clean up the room that you trashed when you came back. She just took her stuff out of bags and suitcases and made a total mess. She argued that she was not cleaning it up that it wasn't all her mess. I told her that I would not argue with her. It's either Respect our rules and us and live here with benefits or don't respect us and the rules and find somewhere else to live without our benefits. About an hour later she came up to me to ask if I was going to be nice to her...I said I didn't say anything to her and the ball is in her court. She opened the door, I told her if she left she was not coming back! She just left.. She ended up calling my mom to come get her at Burger King. I found out through a friend what was going on. So I asked my mom to please not let her stay with them, but to take her to the hospital to admit herself to get her meds straightened out. Needless to say she didn't, mom took her to her house. Then Father's Day Taylor called very shitty and said she was coming over to get some stuff and to see her dad. I told her he didn't want to see her right now and that he was very hurt and just wait till tomorrow to come get the stuff and I hung up. My mom called back..I didn't answer she left a VM telling me that they were coming over and they were calling the police to come with them to get her stuff. I called and said that was not necessary that we would allow only Taylor to come in and get the stuff. While we were waiting we decided to get everything of hers together and bagged or packed it up and set it on the front porch..there was a ton of crap. I got a call from a friend of mine who is a police officer. He said they were at the station and what's going on. I told them that we had put everything outside and that way there would be no confrontation that way. He said that was a great idea. He followed them over here. They were mad because they brought their car instead of their truck and there was not enough room, so they kept tring to call us. We would not answer. We were looking out the window to see what they were doing so we knew it was them calling and not the officer. They argued with the officer saying they could not take it all and we should let them store it here until they could take it all. He told them TOUGH! Take it or I'm sure it will be garbage. This Monday..mom called asking for Taylor's insurance card. I told her that since she moved out, Dad had called the insurance and cancelled her. She didn't believe me so she talked to Steve, he told her the same thing! Mom and Taylor actually went to Steve's work (he was about to leave when they called) and started yelling and screaming in the parking lot. Steve went on in and ignored them. My mom went to his HR dept and started mouthing off to them trying to get a new card for Taylor or Steve's Social Security Number so she could have the hospital bill him...oh yeah..supposedly Taylor hurt her foot..They told her to leave or they were calling the police! HA HA So Mom and Taylor showed up here. Banging on the door and screaming and cussing. I warned them that I did not have what they wanted..some specific clothing and the insurance card and if they did not stop I was calling the police. I called the police. The police basically told them that if they didn't leave the property immediately then he was going to arrest them right then and there. They were both screaming and waving arms at the officer. He was not a happy camper. He came in and told me I had done the right thing, by not letting them in and calling him and asked if I was ok with them being arrested if they did not leave..I said do whatever you have to do! They ended up leaving, but I am sure we have not heard the last of them! PHEWW that was alot of work typing all this...I know it's very detailed, but I didn't want to leave anything out, so you all would know exactly what all happened...maybe some of you will learn something from it, maybe some of you will think I am a terrible person, but hopefully most of you will give support and advice. That's what I need right now.
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