My daughter made some mistakes with her boyfriend of almost 2 years. She is almost 16. Since he broke up with her 4 - 5 weeks ago she has called him, texted him, made a fool of herself trying to get him back. She has no pride at all. He did not start out abusing her (verbally and pyschologically only - not physically)but it is turning into an abusive situation now because of her. She is willing to take anything from him and his friends if it will get him to come back. Her behavior is destructive. He is heavy into smoking pot (which is a great reason for them to be done) but he is also a good kid. I think though that the smoking and the kids he's with when doing it are affecting his communication with her. Sometimes he tells he still loves her and will be with her soon and other times he screams at her. Could this be when he's high??? We cannot make her see this needs to stop. In fact the more we say these things the worse she gets. Her grades are in the toilet she has way too many absences at school. I can't get her to see how detructive her behavior is. I have her seeing a therapist but I don't know if that's helping. I tried to get her to an adolescent pyschiatrist but my insurance won't cover them one that is closet and is female. I am drowning in all this.
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