I am worried about her friend situation. She does know a lot of people. She is friendly and nice but I am not sure if really good friends besides the one since 8th grade who now has a boyfriend who doesn't like my daughter that much. He put up with her in 9th and half of 10th grade when her best friend and he broke up because he wanted to leave the group and hang out with his other friends in his other classes and waterpolo friends. My daughter's friend was heartbroken. My daughter and her friend asked this boy if he would like her to join him and he said no. They later reunited this past April or May and went to the Prom together with my daughter and her boyfriend and another friend and his grilfriend. They have been going out this whole summer but this boy's friend's do not like my daughter so I am not sure how this will all work for my daughter. She was talking to her friend who still likes her, they will be getting together this Tuesday for a slumbar party and they were also chatting on the computer about what it will be like at school with this problem. I asked my daughter and she briefly told me that she will be a floater. This sort of upset me because now I feel my daughter really does not have a place to fit in, that maybe she is left out and just has to come up to people. What if people are not nice to her, what if she is lonely or sad. This is her senior year and then she will be going to Junior college. She will have a busy schedule with nice classes and she is ready to work hard. This morning we made coffee together, she said good morning to me and has been very nice to me. Last night she felt very depressed and hopeless before she talked to her best friend and her boyfriend. Her boyfriend called her and I overheard her say that she doesn't feel her day will be good today either which made me feel sad and I thought what can I do to make her happier. Today she seems fine, I am not sure what to make of what she said. She does not really like to talk about this. She seems fine today. She was chatting a lot yesterday to her boyfriend, her best friend and another friend who has been nice to her. They are still not the best of friends but she is a friend, I hope things would get better for her and this friend which would mean another friend for my daughter. I am feeling depressed and anxious over this and not able to be a good and calm mom about this because I am worried about her situation. I worry will she have friends, will people be nice to her. Does anyone have any advice over this. I guess what I have learned here from several people who have talked to me is my daughter is in charge of her life, she will make her choices, I cannot control the way other people treat my daughter, I wish I could. All I can do is try to be here for her but I do feel very sad over this. How can I overcome this? This is one of my biggest sorrows, my daugther's unhappiness.
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