My daughter has finally found someone who really likes and cares about her. This is a new relationship so I am not completely sure his faithfullness, loyalty and committment and I don't know him very well only from what I hear from my daughter and what I can understand by trying to understand and listen as much as I can so this is very new to me and I am not one to just trust either. I need loyalty and committment from people in order for me to do the same but from what I can tell he seems nice but I still don't know. His dad is a single man. He is Italian from New York and he has a temper and he is very sensitive when he does not get his way. His dad has been fired from jobs or he quit a good job all because he did not like the people he worked with so now he does not have a stable life at all and he cannot provide one for his two children, my daughter's boyfriend who will turn 18 in January, he is a Senior in H.S. and the younger sister who is in 9th grade. Their mom is someone who dates and sleeps around, I think she does drugs or drinks and is not a mom at all and does not care so all her boyfriend has is his unstable dad who has a temper. They live in a small apartment and they have not been paying rent so now they are being evicted by the end of the month. Her boyfriend is helping the best he can do and he is being a good son but the dad told him today that if he does not get a job by the time he is 18 he is kicking him out and disowning him. He will still be in H.S., he has no transportation because he can't afford a car but I am sure he could do a good job if he had money. He has tried to look for a job but can't find one as it is very hard. The dad was talking about moving in with his brother or cousin who live in a home in another city but they want him to pay to stay there, I am sure it is because they have helped this person a lot and they don't want to be doing this anymore which is not this boyfriend's fault at all so both of his parents are not able to help him and many people do care about this boy. He has a best friend with a very good family who I think would be willing to take him in and help. Another friend who cares my daughter says they might be moving to another state since it is hard to live here expense wise and they have problems but they are nice. This is pretty much. This seems like such a dire and scarry situation and I am not sure how to cope. We don't have a big enough place for this boy to stay and he is not expecting us to have him since he is the boyfriend and they have only been dating for a couple of months. I just feel so bad for this boy and don't know what I can do. My daughter is very sad and this makes me feel very bad. She cried. I do not like to see her this sad. I feel helpless right now and not sure how to handle this. These kinds of problems are very hard for me. I just am not sure what to do. I don't like to see my daughter sad and I am worried about this boy who does not deserve this as he is a good almost 18 year old.
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