I just found out this past weekend my 16 yr old thinks she is gay. I don't really know how to feel. I am not mad. i love her she is my daughter. i kinda feel sad. i think she is just trying to test me. we just got over "cutting" and now this. i always tell my girls there is nothing that they could do to make me not love them. i might be disappointed or mad but never stop loving them. I was upset that she has been "dating" a girl for 2 months. they bought each other gifts i asked why, she laughed and told me they were dating. i was upset cause she just had a sleepover w/ this girl and some others. i was like if you asked for a "boyfriend" to sleep over do you think it would have been allowed? I just feel like she has enough obstacles--being a hispanic girl and now add gay to it. I haven't really talked to her about it in depth. I kinda want to talk but am afraid if i upset her she will cut again. Can someone please tell me what to do...better yet pinch me and wake me up. HELP
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