my son is 12 he will b 13 next week. i am afraid he hates me. he lies about everything even stupid little stuff. he can't tell the truth about anything. he steals everything. if something is missing i look in his room or locker at school and find it. he is not the nicest with his little sisters which are 6 and 9. i also have a 1mo old boy that don't need a brother like that for a role model. i don't know what to do with him anymore. he has I's in every class at school... which is so low it can't be an f even. 20% and stuff like that. it is to the point i am contemplating letting him go live with his fathers parents. his father is not around. he went to prison when my son was 2 for rape of a 16 yr old girl. he is out of prison as of 2 months ago but tha is not someone i want around my son. my son is angry. his father tried to kill him when he was 2 and my son does remember some of this subconciously (i know i spelled that wrong) he is so angry and i don['t know what to do i am waiting for the day he decides he doesn't have to even attempt to listen to what i say. he is already taller than me at 12 and i am scared of what he is going to become if he keeps doing this. afraid he is going to end up in prison. i ahve tried counseling but the counseler was always more interested in talking to me than in my son so it did not help... i feel like an awful parent i feel like i have failed somehow and that is why he is this way. any advice??
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