My son won't read. That's where a lot of the problems started in school. He can, he just won't. he totally refuses to get up in front of the class so if there's an assignment where he would have to, he won't do it and if he does, he won't hand it in. His self esteem is shot and I don't know why. So now he hangs around boys that are OK but for the most part will end up getting into trouble because none of them have any ambition or drive to do anything in or out of school. My son has no interests in anything, but I'm thinking he needs to join something without his friends, i jsut don't know what. Unfortunately there's a girl involved, not a girlfriend but a friend that is literally phyco and he's buying into everything which has caused some stress between us. She's had every story in the book from her father wanting to send her to a mental institute to her mothers in Penn. Every time Justin gets all hung up on he's never going to be able to talk to her again and it gets ugly but would take forever to tell everything. Since this girl however, he's actually told me he want me to die now. It's not just hate me anymore, it's die. I'm afraid mostly for him. I'm going to lose him and I can't let that happen. We are seeking counseling but that was more for school. Our next session I'm going to have to bring up everything else. I did mention the girl in the last one however. I don't know how to express the desperation, but we both need help.
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