I have a 16yo daughter who is a good child. Other than grades and the normal back talk we really have no problems out of her. But she is a very pretty girl and of course has guys crazy over her. My husband is extremely protective over her understandably. But he wont let her grow up. Every time she starts to show any interest in a boy he makes up some reason why she cant talk to the boy anymore. This has gone on for the past year. She is absolutely miserable now. She and I have always had an extremely close relationship and she tells me everything. Yes, even stuff I dont want to hear. But I am glad for that. Anyway, she has met a boy that she is really crazy about. They have been talking for about five months and are both crazy about each other. But of course my husband hates him. He wont let her have anything to do with. They are not allowed to talk at all. Of course they have been anyway and I have to say that I know it has been happening. I have let it because I dont understand why he refuses to let her. Anyway, things have been getting very tense around our house because Im sure my husband knows they still talk on the phone and on the computer. (They very rarely get to see each other) So the other day I asked her to calm things down for a few days, like possibly just not talk for a day or two to let things subside. I found out yesterday she is now lieing to me about not talking to him. So my question is, am I wrong for trying to stop this now that I have let it happen? Or should I stick with my husbands decision and make her stop? I do not want to do anything to interfere with the relationship she and I have, but I strongly feel that is about to happen. Any advice?
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