My oldest daughter is 14. She has been extremely angry at her dad for a couple of years now. He is an alcoholic who refuses to get help. He has been tearing our family apart. Well on Christmas day I found proof that he has a mistress. Her anger is so deep she wants to hurt him bad. She doesn\'t want to talk to him or see him. I keep telling her she needs to. What is happening with her dad and me should not affect her relationship wiht him. I refuse to bad mouth him in front of the girls. I won\'t cry in front of them and try to hide how much this is tearing me apart. My oldset is not stupid. She knows and literaly hates her dad right now. She keeps telling me that her father is dead and there is a stranger in his body. I am getting her counceling. Well all 3 of us. But she said she would go but she doesn\'t have to tell the truth. I need to know what to do so this won\'t haunt her the rest of her life.
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