My husband and I are most likely going to seperate soon, and I would like some advice on how to break the news to them. My son is 16 and my daughter is at that major drama age of 14. Their both very good kids, I've had very few normal teenage problems with them, but I'm mostly afraid for my daughter. My son would be okay I think. I'm sure he'll go through a rough patch. My husband says that if I leave he will fight me for the kids. I think he plans on making this a very ugly thing. The kids are both old enough to understand, but they're old enough to choose. I don't want them to be put into the middle of something uglier than they'll already be facing. So I've stayed for 18 yrs, I thought I could do it til they were 18, but it's impossible.
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