Ykes... this sounds familiar, to the other post where the lady has a son in a bad relationship only with a twist. My daughter became involved with a boy about a year and a half ago. She has a short temper and short fuse. She always tells you what she thinks. The boy is very quiet and rarely gives his opinion. He let her push him around alot. We told him he would get tired of that and he would just smile and say naaah. Well he did. She was totally taken off guard, it has turned into a train wreck for her. She has come totally unglued. He told her he just wanted to date some other girls to see if they were right for each other, as they had already talked at length about marriage... I tried to squash that one, but it was a tough sell my husband and I started dating at 15 and 17... still married after 26 years, dated for 6 years before that. I knew this was going to happen. He told her he was certain he would be back with her after he did this and every time he got near her he felt the need to kiss her. We have been living pure hell for a month and a half. She has not missed one day since then crying hard. This has been horrible. She has lost 22 pounds.. and can not sleep. At least 2 to 3 times per week we have a complete melt down. She is seeing a christian counselor, but it does not seem to help. She can not keep from contacting him because he kept her hanging on...Her relationship with her father is really bad, and he is no longer willing to tolorate her behavior, but she is really suffering.
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