We have a 12 yr. old daughter who has sever mooddisorder and odd and adhd, we have a lot of behaviors and struggles. we are in therapy through a private place and the school also pays for therapy. there are a lot of imature issues she has, she lies and just really struggles with things, anyway she has this thing about older boys and thinking that she is old enough for a boyfriend and dating and all that, she has been caught over at this boys house several times he is 15. we have tried explaining to her that she is not old enough and that it is not good choices to put herself in a positon likethat, the rule is you date when you are 16. well tonight she was caught over there again. I had to go get her, Itold the boy and the other two that were there that the next time she was over there the sheriff would be coming to get her, that she was not to be over there. she was only 12. the parents are never around and two of the boys have been in trouble with the law. I do not blame the boy totally, My daughter is the one showing up on his doorstep. but he knoew that she was only 12 and was not suppose to be over there, I do not want to get him trouble with the law either I mean he is only 15 but I want them to know I mean it when I say she is not to be there, she just has a lot of issues and she struggles with amking good choices for herself, we have talked to her about her body and respecting it and that other people need to also, but when she was acting like she is that boys will not want to date her because she is pretty or just for being her, they are going to want to take her out for onething and onething only, the girls will talk about her, and that is not the kinda of popularity she wants, she has a good home life and she has has always been close to her father/ this is tearing him up. so did Iovereact by telling her the sheriff would come and get her, we have tried everything to make ker realize she cannot be over there. sorry this is long,, I am just upset.
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