So my 3 year old always prefers my mom(her grandma)when my mom gets home from work. when she does, after that.. i am non exsistant. i try to play with her and do stuff to get my daughter's attention, but after a while i just gave up and let my mom deal with it so i can have a break so to speak. but now my mom is calling me a bad mom and that i need to pay attention to her. but when i do, the baby always goes back to my mother. Especially when i dont give the baby something that i dont want her to have, she flies to my mother and my mom questions why I didnt give it to her. So now im the bad guy. I have had talks with my mother, but she always gets touchy saying stuff like"fine, then i wont say anything to her" in a smug tone. Now the baby is telling me that she doesnt like me. i pretend taht it doesnt hurt my feelings but it does. what should i do? how do i get to get my "mother" badge back?
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