He is working 6 days a week and tells me if I want sundays off I have to get a sitter. He treats me like an employee. We had sex once this month. He rarely sleeps in my bed and has only spent the whole night there once in the last month. Now he wants me to do something at home with him for Valentines day on sat night and send my kids to a friend for the evening. The problem- I feel so distant from him I think it will be wierd and awkward to pretend to be all romantic. It feels fake. I know logically I should just take what I can get but it feels rediculous. I also feel like if I do this and do end up reconnecting to some extent it will just make me feel more alone because its not exactly likely to happen again in the near future.. Lately I have just been pretending I am single (mentally- not cheating or anything) because its easier then having a relationship with someone who is chronically not there for me. What would you guys do if you were me?
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