I just need to say as a mother and to all mothers especially infants i just want to know what the woman i am going to talk about was thinking. my husband has a friend who met a girl over the internet and she moved in with him. she had a miscarriage acouple of months after she got here. then she got pregnant again. well she's not the sharpest tool in the shed well we were do a month apart. she is only 21 and i am 24 not a huge difference but if you met her you'd know becaue she acts 16. towards theend of the pregnancy she complained a lot about being uncomfortable and just wanting the baby to come. well i totally understoodthat i had just had mine and i knew how uncomfortable it was and she was almost two weeks over due. well she decided even before she was overdue to take it into her own hands and look up on the internet how to enduce her own labor. she tried anything and everything and went to a extreme with it. everyone around her told her to stop because she was putting stress on the baby. i did some research myself and found a lot of those can be more harmful than helpful. well she was enduced by the doctor and i guess she bled a lot. the next day the baby started having seizures and the ydi da mri and found a spot on her brain. they put her in a NICU a half hour away and the mother and father refuse to stay down there. they don't own a car or even have licenses. so they rely on rides they find from friends and few relatives. they put the mother under investigation for neglect because she wasn't at the hospital enough. i guess they did that and she isn't under anymore but she only has stayed down there one night and it's been i believe over a month now. they try to do tests on the baby but the parents tell the doctors they won't allow it. i don't understand what they could be thinking. even the simplest test they wn't let them do. it's insane. why aren't they staying down there for the baby...why aren't they letting doctors better the baby so she can go home. i just can't wrap my mind around it. i do hope maybe someone reads this and realizes the danger of taking labor into your own hands and internet facts may not be facts. i feel so much for this child. its not her fault.
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