My husband works two jobs and goes to school full-time. Because of this, he's very rarely home and when he is, he doesn't know how to shut off from work. He's always creating extra projects for himself instead of relaxing. He loves our little boy and me, and he continues to show his love but it's just not quality time. Our son has been having a bad reaction to him lately. Sometimes when he holds him, Kian will let out a cry of terror and start crying so much that tears run down his face. I've tried to reassure him while his daddy still holds him, but he doesn't stop until I take him. He doesn't have a negative reaction to anyone else holding him, just his dad. I don't know how to fix this, except to ride it out till Kian's a little older.
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