My daughter gets along very well with a girl in her class. They are similar in a lot of ways: Playful, athletic, and funny. They had several play dates together, either at the girl's house or our house. The play dates all went very well. Somehow, I am just confused by the behavior of the girl's mom. First of all, the mom always gives 1 hour notice for the play dates. I thought maybe I should be flexible. So whenever we are available, we will go with her way. Second, the kids were late going to school couple of times after play dates at her house(the kids go to afternoon kindergarten and parents send them there). She never mentioned to me that they were late(Her daughter are always late). My daughter told me that she was "tardy pants" for couple of times. Thirdly, and most confusing part to me, she is always a super super sweet and nice friend when she is on the phone, at her house, or at our house. But she shows a different face when we pick up the kids at the school gate(a lots of parents there). I said "hi" couple of times, she gave me blank looks with a little smile. Or she warmly says "hi" to others, while overlooking me. But when she calls, or without other people around, she goes back to that super sweet and nice lady. I personally like what she does to the community: going and volunteering at the church, very involved in the family, school and community. I assume she is a good person if she does all the good things to the society. Just very confused by her behavior. We all like the girl. I am just not very comfortable with the way this lady handles things. Be honest, this is the first time I deal with this personality. I love all my friends. We don't treat each other this way. Anyone can shed some lights?
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