Painful Intercourse Support Group
Dyspareunia is painful sexual intercourse, due to medical or psychological causes. The term is used almost exclusively in women, although the problem may occur in men. The causes are often reversible, even when long-standing, but self-perpetuating pain is a factor after the original cause has been removed.
Sex is usually always painful for me. This is causing my sex life with my boyfrind to suck. IS there anything that I can do to make it better? Sometimes I feel that I fail him as a boyfriend.
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Hey! I definitely know how you feel, I feel like I fail my boyfriend all the time that we can't have sex. But focus on the stuff that you can do with him, whether it be sexual or not. And if he truly cares about you he will be patient and help you work through it. Let me know if you ever need to talk since I am going through the same thing right now!
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I'm so with you! I have a terrible burning sensation & I hate sex. My boyfriend is somewhat understanding although he always tries to pull a quicky on me. It makes me sad when he begs. I don't know why he's with me
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sex has aways been painful hubby says it is normal he said every girl he has been with said the same thing
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Ugh defiantely sucks! I have had boyfriends that didn't work out strictly for that reason. Just because I couldn't have sex with them. Because it hurt me! If he loves you and cares about you enough he will understand that it isn't just him that is suffering! I finally found someone that can deal with it. Been together 6 months and have not had sex once! Definately agree with megiepoo! I hate sex! It is not fun when you are in pain the whole time!! =( Best of luck to you my dear, and am here if ya wanna chat! =) xoxox
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I feel the same way, that I'm failing my husband because sex is so difficult and is so hard on me when we are able to. Be open to trying other things. I struggle to remain open to sex in general and enjoy what is not painful, cuddling, etc. But remember, you are so much more than that sort of pleasure. We are more than that, and are in NO MEANS not enough because we can't provide that. :) I'm right there with you.
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