Things are going very well, who knows what there is down the road, 'cause that's the way it goes.
This site is relaxing because not many come here any more -- just every now and then. I kind of like to think of it as The Rebuilding From The Cheat's Point of View Site.
The old questions are still lying around, here. Why did you do it? How did it happen? What is love? Are men and women that different? Who knows -- does anybody really know? What makes people cling so fiercely to their unhappiness on both sides of the issue? Is it because it's safer to see the world as an evil place than risk another belly-flop on the concrete? Sure it is. But that doesn't stop the clock -- tempis fidgets, fidgets and fidgets and fidgets away while we stand at the wailing wall, back to the waking world.
Is there a point where this kind of suffering simply becomes an excuse, and a self-indulgence? Shouldn't there be a break point where you stay and get it together, or leave and start over? What about the folks who are trapped, by finances, or children, or fear? The last, fear, is no excuse -- even if you can't face it head-on, you can nibble at it's edges, push against it ... Finances? Only when there are kids involved. If you're afraid of a diminished life style -- well, boo-hoo -- time to get a life anyway. Kids? Oh, there are no easy answers there.
There are no answers but the ones that work for you, at least in the larger sense. What these places help with is to challenge your thinking, wake you up, make you look at things from a wider perspective. But you must have ears to listen and eyes to see with ...