I have been w/r for 9yrs. as his second. I have been trying to understand why he can't be with just me. He has been thru 3 other women since I have been w/him, I have been trying to be understanding of his feeling of being he is being trapped. I left him many times and he has dumped me too. but we always end up back together w/ one major problem he is with other woman and i am to be quite and just take the back seat and let the other women be with him out in the open and do stuff. what is wrong with me. I am fond of him and hate the idea of him not in my life but this is driving me crazy.I am no beauty and can't seem to find a decent guy. They are all gone in age group.