Can someone help me understand this? Do you think its because he knew what he did and wouldn't want me to touch another or is it because he feels he deserves to be cheated on after the pain he caused? We have been working on us for about 2 yrs now, but this is still an issue he's more protective than he was before the infidelity. We do everything together which is good. Do you think maybe he wants to prevent anything from happening again on either end. I just don't understand the way of thinking. I mean I know I'm stronger in this area..and I know the OW was weak like him she lusted after everybody I would tell her it was wrong... she was always looking at other women's H little did I know she had messed with mine. The main concern I have is why would he be this way? Or suddenly walk in on me and ask who was with me is he still tripping after his crack binges? He would hallucinate and see me with other men. Maybe that stupid drug messed him up? IDK? I wonder if he just can't believe I love him after what happened between us.
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