My husband is in the fog, he is so blind to it. I have complete clarity as to where he is. He is very vulnerable and when I say anything nice to him or complimentary he is a sponge. I think he feel so bad about who he is right now. He says he has tremendous feelings for me and I truly love him. BUt the big but is he says he is in love with the OW. They are not in contact now but that just stopped. When looks at me I feel our chemistry I asked him if I could hug him and he said yes. As we hugged he backed up and rolled his eyes and says I get so aroused when I am close to you. I have conflicting feelings on this we are still married so I feel as though our sexual desires are a good thing. Then I am unsure he seems so confused that his might mess him up even more. Sex is a powerful bond can it bring us closer as a separated married couple. Or not????
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