I read some things about how spouses would rather have us leave than cheat on them. Do you really believe that? I'm wondering because although my husband doesn't know about the affair, he does know that I am not satisfied at home. I feel loved, but I don't feel passion toward him. Absolutely no sexual desire for him at all. I'm sorry, but you just can't make somebody feel something they don't. So what's the answer here? Do we give up our homes, families, security, etc. just to find passion? Somehow that just seems selfish to me. Do we just go on without it? An affair seemed like a way to get what I needed without destroying my family. In the end, and I know they don't all turn out like this, I'm the only one who got destroyed. So be it.
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