I discovered my h affair in nov last year so it has been 9 mths.Like the 9 mths i was pregnant and he was cheating.I still wake up every day and its the first thing on my mind and the last before i go to bed.I have no closure as he is still around so much for the kids.My son still cries every night for his dad to come home but he is still seeing the ow.I want to run away and hide.I was away for 2 weeks and it was so much better for me.I could breath agagin.My family all say i should be getting over it but i cant.How long does it take before it doesnt consume your life.I feel my life is on hold at the moment.I wish i could be strong and tell him where to go.He says maybe we can work things out one day but i know im his second choice in case it doesnt work with her.I feel so stupid and weak.Please help
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